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Thursday, September 1, 2005
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"The pessimist complains about the wind;
the optimist expects it to change;
the realist adjusts the sails."

~ William A. Ward
 

 


  • From Wanting It To Creating It...

  • Action Steps for Today

  • Making a Difference - Kevin Ciccotti

  • The Meaning of "Poignant"

  • Special Note About Hurricane Katrina

  • The Wait by Hunter Jesse

  • What do you want?

 

 

Class Announcements...


EQ Class Added!

EQ: Communicating with Power gives you the secrets and tools used by all of the most successful communicators in the world. In addition, one of the most powerful processes in all our courses is contained in this class.

The next EQ happens September 22-24, 2005 in Northern California. Contact the office at (775) 575-2298 to get more information and to sign up. Click here to learn more.

Awakening Classes Are Filling Quickly!

If you've been planning to send a starfish through Leadership Awakening, please act now to make sure you get the dates you want. All West Coast Awakening classes are now held in Sacramento, California. To see the full updated schedule, including which classes are still open, click here.

 

Today's Message

From Wanting It To Creating It...

By Dr. Bruce Eichelberger

There are 3 steps to becoming your dreams: Want It. Create It. Live It. These steps apply in every case, whether you are dreaming about next week or the rest of your life.

Today, we're going to concentrate on the crucial step from wanting it and creating it.

Why is this a crucial step? Because it is the step that takes a person from a 'wanna be,' who only dreams about their goals, to a person of action who takes concrete steps towards achieving them.

A case in point is Empower U's new Texas HBS Ranch. As most of you know, the HBS Ranch in Fernley, Nevada was sold earlier this year. Scott and his family moved to the Dallas, Texas area where they are in the process of creating the new Texas HBS Ranch. As he puts it, "When we left Fernley, we knew what we wanted in Texas. Now we're in the process of creating it."

The new HBS Ranch will have a retreat center and administrative building on it, as well as a large pond and other amenities.

To see an animation showing the planned transformation , click here.

In the first screen, you'll see an overhead image of the current property showing the location of the current house. The second screen shows the new additions, including the retreat center, the administration building, and the enlarged pond.

In this example, you can see that the 'Want It' stage involves the original idea, in this case, wanting to create a new HBS Ranch in Texas.

The 'Create It' stage happens at two levels because everything is created twice - first in the mind, and then in the physical world. You can see from the plans that there is a detailed vision of the desired outcome. This is the first part of creating it. The second part of creating it is building the physical structures.

This example clearly illustrates the way everything is created: Know what you want, clearly visualize the final result in detail, and then take action to move towards it.

Simple. Powerful. Effective...

 

Action Steps for Today

What do you want in your life? Are there goals you've set for yourself in the "Want It" stage, but haven't taken steps to create?

If so, use the concrete example of the Texas HBS Ranch to stimulate your imagination and creativity. Set time aside to sit down and make a detailed 'blueprint' of your desired outcome. Along with the specific details of what you want, include a series of concrete steps you can take to actualize your dream. Once you have your blueprint, you've taken the first crucial step towards creating your dream! Then, by following the concrete steps you've outlined, you can begin to make your dream a reality in the physical world.

Following this simple, but powerful plan, you'll be there before you know it!

 
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Making a Difference - Kevin Ciccotti

Thank you to all of you for the unconditional support that you continue to give so freely to your teammates. I am so grateful for the wonderful people who have come into my life as a result of my experiences with Empower U. This team is such a huge part of my life and who I am.

Going into this weekend, I felt a tremendous sense of sadness for the loss of my friends' darling baby boy. And as the funeral approached on Saturday morning, I felt a sense of foreboding and impending dread as my mind swirled with the notions of what would or would not happen at this sad occasion. Sadly enough, I have been to many funerals in my time, including that of my own adoring, loving mother 8 years ago. But I have only been to one other funeral service for one so young and I found myself filled with apprehension. What could I say to these dear friends to ease their pain? How would I react as others came together to express their own feelings of loss? What would the service be like - overwhelmingly sad, or a celebration of this young life?

I was at the very first moment struck by the mood as I entered the monastery where the service was to be held. I was greeted by Brad and Leilani, the parents of young Gabriel, who were greeting guests as they arrived. They welcomed everyone with a smile and a hug, and with words of encouragement. Imagine that, THEY were comforting US as we entered. These are truly people of true faith and love.

There were children everywhere I looked - and they had set up tables with small toys, coloring books, balloons, and bubbles. It was apparent that this would not be an "ordinary"" funeral service. Children were encouraged to just be children, and that gave the rest of us permission to also feel at ease.

The service was beautiful, with Gabriel's maternal grandfather reading a poignant poem he wrote about his beloved grandson. Very touching, very emotional, and completely uplifting. Then Gabriel's father got out his guitar and sang a beautiful song he wrote for his little boy, all about how they will be reunited in Heaven. Very powerful. After the service, as I held Leilani in my arms and whispered in her ear my love and affection for her and her family, I was able to recount to her a memory I have of an experience we shared with Gabriel that caused her to break out in joyous laughter. And at that moment I realized that just my being there, loving her, supporting her, and sharing a happy memory was everything to her. Thank you, Heavenly Father for giving me that moment.

As the day progressed, I found myself recounting that time in Leadership Awakening when we learned the true meaning of fear - false evidence appearing real... and I was so happy to know that my deepest fears of this day were nothing more than a momentary lapse of reason on my part. This funeral for this darling little boy became one of the most uplifting and life-affirming events I have ever attended. Only a loving and benevolent God could have made this possible. I am so thankful to be surrounded by people of such faith. I have learned yet another valuable life lesson through this experience.

I will continue to live my life like it matters, because as I now know so well - it DOES!


Word Play

Poignant means very moving or deeply affecting. It is often used similarly to the word 'touching' in the emotional sense.

You can see it used in the sentence from today's 'Make a Difference' article: "The service was beautiful, with Gabriel's maternal grandfather reading a poignant poem he wrote about his beloved grandson."


Special Note About Hurricane Katrina

Unless you've tuned out all news over the past week, you are aware of the massive devastation in the Gulf States from Katrina. Our hearts go out to all those who've lost so much in this tragedy.

Empower U is doing what we can to make a difference for those affected. We have donated $5,000 towards relief efforts. We encourage all graduates and readers of "Let the Journey Continue" to do what you can to help by donating to the Red Cross or other organization working to help those in need. Remember, when you live your life like it matters... it DOES!


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The Wait by Hunter Jesse

I am noticing that it always boils down to this... the wait. Even for the most active, who are truly pursuing their intense dash, the space of hesitation brings reflection on the act of waiting. In other words, I am waiting for the next person, the next action, and the next step to demonstrate their true character for the moment. When these add to a common, trustable line, I willingly engage in parallel and, thus, am left wondering how this truly adds to the makings of a leader.

For example, I sense a strange war among a group of people that involves one my friends. It falls back to Awakening's quip of "Marriage is the main cause of divorce." The friend and ex-husband are caught between friendly love and angry emotion due to her decision to start a new life in a new city. Her friends have chosen the ex-husband's point of view. The best part of the experience, however, is that she is being honest with who she is and knows that her Houston life would be burdened if she remained.

While I am peripheral to the real struggle, I am an advisor from a remote mountaintop who has been able to focus on others and their feints. They have allowed this event to define who they will become in relation to her. What they are failing to see is that the real war lives in their heart and soul, and not with her. Their bodies are experiencing the same failure as these other two vessels. Their mind a final and sad victim to the war already lost when the heart and soul were cast aside by drawing the dividing lines.

Thus, I wait for people to see how genuine, lovely, and amazing they can be; especially, in these matters that have shed unhealthy baggage between two ex-companions. Unfortunately, I am seeing it picked up and distributed among their friends. I am not a direct influencer in these affairs except to the one person with whom I have contact. This, in turn, means that she is the only person with whom I am demonstrating active following and active leadership. Sadly, their anger demonstrates their hurt; but, their lies about her, about themselves, and to others continue create new burdens. Fortunately, she continues to demonstrate her need for a new start with honesty.

In reflection, I find too that I am waiting for myself to realize, at every single moment in time, that peace comes from living without another's burdens. For me, this means that all burdens are self-imposed and all such self-impositions, regardless of type, are sad titillations designed to undermine the heart and soul. The "best I get to be" means that I chose to see the good in every situation, be wary of the bad in every situation, and offer the genuine heart and soul that I have. In the end, this has endured as a lasting trustable trait for all my friends and companions. This has come through purposeful crafting with Awakening and Adventure and needed hardship by testing my commitment to my Mission Statement. The single most powerful tool in this experience has been my anchor... I don't need to be liked. In this reminder, I act. I tell her how I feel; I offer her cheering support; and, with all of the empathy I have, I become her one friend in a city hundreds of miles away.

I want similar companionship and wonder if she will be available the same way. Then again, will anyone every really be here... at this same spot... remote from the fictional wars, in the mindset of an EmpowerU blacksmith shop? Will they be crafting the same tools for their friends? It matters to me, but only if the self-pity and loathing is dropped, the honest living ensues, and the next crafted offering of tools opens the heart and soul to the energy offered by this spiritual world. So, here I engage others... seeking a constant stream... willing to let the wait subside... willing to engage hearts and souls with a smile if others will truly look again, for the first time, in the mirror.

Ultimately, in my interaction with my friend, I get to change the process of waiting into an explosive dash. I get to run a race that involves at least one person willing to step forward, blindfolded with trust, and that dissipates the space between waiting and living.


What do you want?

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