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Wednesday, March 1, 2006
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"To change is to be vulnerable. And to be vulnerable is to be alive." 

~ Alexis DeVeaux
 

 


  • Change

  • Action Steps for Today

  • Making a Difference - , Team

  • The Meaning of ""

  • "The Butterfly Effect" by Jim Meurer

  • What do you want?

 


Important Announcements...


Have you had any problems with the new CD?

A few people who've bought the new music CD, "Steppin' Over the Line" have reported that there are tracks that don't sound clear and as a result they aren't enjoying listening to them. If you've bought one and found this problem, please contact our office at (775) 575-2298 so that we can arrange to send you a replacement. We want you to be completely satisfied with your purchase.

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Today's Message

Change

Dr. Bruce Eichelberger

Ask people what they want (you know, "What do you want?") and once they stop telling you what they don't want they'll often come up with a list of things they feel are missing in their lives.

Yet year after year you can observe these same people and see that for most of them nothing changes. No matter how much they say they want these things, they never take action to achieve them.

You may have experienced this yourself, and certainly you have people in your life who don't ever get beyond the 'wanna-be' stage of the change process. They never take steps to create their dreams and then live them.

Why not? What keeps people from diving headlong into the process of living their dreams?

The answer is simple: fear.

What is it about change that's so scary? Is it that you'd be stepping into the unknown? Is it old programming from the past? Is it just wanting to stay in your comfort zone?

Truthfully, it's probably all of these things. And for each person the exact details will be different. For example, when you were young you might have been told in no uncertain terms never to talk to strangers or something bad would happen. While that was a good thing at age 5, it you might have generalized this out to having a hard time talking in front of a group as an adult (speeches anyone?).

Or, like most of us, you might have grown up thinking that the level of success and affluence your parents had was 'normal.' As a result you never considered thinking beyond that to visualize what might be possible if you imagined bigger.

And, of course, isn't is so much easier to settle for 'good 'nuff'? If you've already gone through Awakening, you know the flaw in that way of thinking...

In Leadership Adventure, we present a process of how to step outside of your comfort zone and address change intelligently. The idea is simple: we all have a comfort zone where we feel safe and secure; a place where everything is familiar. Think of this as the center circle of 3 concentric circles. We spend most of our lives here.

The next circle out represents the unknown. Walking into Leadership Awakening was probably an example of that for you. Similarly, opening a new business, asking for a raise, or proposing a new project to the boss would all be examples of this level. There is fear there, but not so much that you can't face it if you make up your mind that it's important.

The outermost circle is the area of panic. This is the area where you definitely don't want to go. Quitting your job without any plans about how to support your family or skydiving without a parachute might be examples of this level.

The trick to expanding your world and getting what you want lies in your willingness to venture from the innermost 'comfort zone' circle into the next circle, the circle of fear, but not going so far that you end up in the panic zone. This is intelligent fear management and creative change. This is the area where you are able to expand your possibilities, grow as a person and, ultimately, create an even bigger comfort zone.

See today's Action Step for more ideas on managing change.

 

Action Steps for Today

Today's action step is for you to think about the one project you've been putting off (up until now) because it represents a change in your life. Whether it is starting a side business for extra income, reaching out to a friend or family member with whom you've become estranged, or changing an old belief about yourself, there is something that is pending for you.

Once you identify this area of your life, use the 3 circle metaphor from today's message to think about where you are now (your comfort zone), and where you need to go to have this change happen (your fear zone).

Then, decide what action you will take to face whatever has held you back. Choose to step over the line and expand your world. Decide when you will take this action - day and time - and then commit yourself to do it. By using this step-by-step approach, you will find that you break down your previous limitations and expand your comfort zone. But only if you take ACTION!

By doing this repeatedly, your fear zone will become your comfort zone and you will find yourself doing things you never imagined would be possible for you. Welcome to living your dreams!


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This shirt will help you show your passion! This beautifully crafted long-sleeve crew neck shirt has the EmpowerU logo offset on the collar and the words, "It's a Great Day to Be Alive" embroidered on the left upper sleeve.

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Making a Difference - Kathy Rendon, Team 453

This past six weeks has flown by. I have been very busy assisting my mother. She suffers from COPD, emphysema and severe osteoporosis. She was experiencing pains through her chest and ribs. The doctors finally discovered that she had 5 compression fractures in her back. She was referred to a doctor who performs kyphoplasty.

Her surgery was 2-1/2 weeks ago and she's doing much better, however she cannot get around on her own. I have been spending all of my time assisting her with normal day-to-day duties. I take her to appointments, do her grocery shopping, and stay with her on garbage night.

While I have not yet had the opportunity to assist in my community, I do believe that I am giving back by helping my mom. It makes me feel so good that I am able to be there for her as she was for me during my first 20 years of life.

My Empower-U experience came at exactly the right time. You see my mom is not the most positive person and I draw my strength from the training. I do my best to impart positive thinking methods to her. She does listen and, at times, practices what I preach! I am committed to helping her as much as I can and to tell her every day just how much her love has meant to me.


Word Play

Today's word is "estranged," which means experiencing bad feeling or alienation where there had originally been love, affection, or friendliness.

You can see it used in the sentence from today's Action Steps: "Whether it is starting a side business for extra income, reaching out to a friend or family member with whom you've become estranged, or changing an old belief about yourself, there is something that is pending for you."

 
The Brand New Music CD is Out NOW!


You are Going to Love It!

Steppin' Over the Line CD r

Another great collection of EMPOWERING songs from Dr. Wu is now available.

This new music CD, "Steppin' Over The Line" will rock you, inspire you and help you keep your passion, commitment and vision strong.

The new songs on this CD include:

It’s a Great Day to Be Alive
Want It, Create It, Live It
Shine Your Light (In the Darkness)
Stop Your Lyin’
Will I Be Awakened
Plus 5 more...

People are raving about this new CD!

To place your order, click here or call the office at (775) 575-2298.

 

"The Butterfly Effect" by Jim Meurer

Somewhere in the world a butterfly spreads it’s wings and takes flight. In another part of the world a gust of wind at a critical moment pushes an athlete across the finish line, breaking the old record by 1/1000 of a second.

Have you ever heard of the butterfly effect? Something along these lines: that an independent random event can cause an effect on an entirely unrelated event. Another way it is described is “the propensity of a system to be sensitive to initial conditions”. The concept was first proposed by Edward Lorenz, and has become a big part of the way that weather is predicted. It has also become a topic of debate about the randomness of cause and effect in the natural world.

“A new conception was being made… that whatever fundamental units the world is put together from, they are more delicate, more fugitive, more startling than we catch in the butterfly net of our senses”

Jacob Bronowski “The Ascent of Man”

Well, I’m no weatherman, nor do I spend a lot of time in theoretical discussions about, or the philosophy of, cause and effect. I do, however, truly believe that there is an immense power in how our actions influence events that seemingly have nothing to do with that action. In fact, I believe it is so frequent, so consistent, that it virtually shapes the way society functions.

I also believe this is a large part of what is revealed to us in Awakening. The heightened sensory acuity, the ability to look at ourselves honestly… to confront who we are and what we want. To become aware of just how unaware we are… up until now. This is when we begin to understand just how large an impact our presence here on this planet really has. And everything that comes with that understanding… our own cause and effect if you will.

A short story:

Two women, old friends, happen to run into each other in the market. They spend a little time getting caught up… how things are going in their respective lives, what the kids are doing… typical day-to-day stuff. One of the women shares that her youngest son had recently had a remarkable experience. It seems that Tom had a job that he loved, he had just purchased a small condominium, and life, which had been difficult, was finally going well for him. But there was this problem. Tom worked in a construction company as an apprentice, and he was failing his final exam in apprentice school and might lose his job.

She then told what happened next: the company Tom worked for brought him into the office, along with another senior apprentice who had already passed the same exam, and paid both their wages while the more experienced young man tutored and coached Tom through the material. Tom went on to pass his final with flying colors and advance to the next level of the apprenticeship program. As Tom’s mother was sharing this story, she remarked how rare it is in today’s world that a business will reach out in that way, and how appreciative she felt to those who made a difference in Tom’s life.

Eventually the two women parted ways. The other woman, the friend of Tom’s mother sat down later that evening and wrote a letter to her own son. In the letter, she told her son how proud she was of him, and how grateful she was that he owned a company who’s culture was such that they would do something like that for Tom. Her son, in turn, passed along his appreciation to his employees who chose to make a difference.

And that is how it happened. I know this because, you see… Tom is on my team, and works for the same company as I do. The same company whose owner received the letter from his mother… the same company whose leadership not only sent me to Awakening November 12th, 2004, but has also sent more than two-dozen after me.

I am grateful for a lot of things; not least of which is working in a company where so many have experienced Awakening. I am also becoming more aware each day how my actions influence the world around me… what I put in motion, what the ramifications are of my actions and decisions.

So I ask you this: Consider, as you go through each day, what type of footprints you leave behind on the world… the power of your own Butterfly Effect!


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